Elektrobomb

I am currently trying this mod out and loving it but my personal server is having so many problems and I was wondering if anyone could give me any suggestions. I am running a server on ksp 1.0.5 and have it set to vot based warping as subspace was even more buggy. however, sometimes players cannot see each other, sometimes one can see the other but not vice versa and most vexing of all is when we do manage to fly together by launching at the same time, after about 1 - 5 km from ksc, we each disappear from each other's screens and will not reaappear until we land and only then right next to each other. any ideas? I really want to love this mod but has too many problems to use properly for me