Abstractsolitude

I found that getting your Kerbal to EVA and then re-boarding stops the decay without having to use time warp. No idea why it works, but it seems to fix the issue

I'm seeing the same thing, although the vessels are destroyed (well, completely disappear actually) no matter which docking port I click on when I decouple via the parts manager. One difference, is that I strutted the lander and orbiter prior to launch to reduce the dreaded wobble, but can't find any way of removing the struts after launch. There's nothing like KSP1, where you can right click on a strut and remove it - parts manager doesn't have that functionality. I guess it's possible the struts combined with the two docked vessels are causing the 'destroy' bug when I try to decouple. Sigh...

Seeing a different view of the same visual bug on Moho with AVP installed. Is it something I'm doing? The only other environmental visual mod I have is Parallax 2.