Realism Overhaul advice needed please

[Damo84]

Hi guys,

Recently I've started a RSS, RO, RP-0 career but I'm having some issues.

Firstly I can't get any of the command and control units such as the aerobe despin module and the RCS thrusters to work. The flight engineer reports "such and such not receiving monopropellant". This even happens with the aerobe despin module which has its own supply of fuel.

As well as this I cannot seem to be able to stage properly. Whenever I stage my first stage the second stage tank is "destroyed by aerodynamic forces", basically it just loses its trajectory and falls apart on staging.

I've searched high and low for answers to these issues and even built an exact replica of the orbiting rocket from the RO wiki but it just falls apart at the when I activate the second stage. 

Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated as I think these mods look amazing and i'm so eager to play them.

My mod list is

B9 aerospace procedural wings

Community resource pack

Community tech tree

connected living space

Contract configurator

Contract packs

Deadly reentry

Engine group controller

FASA

FAR

Firespitter

Forgotten real engines

FShanger extended

Hubs

JSI

Kerbal construction time

Near future everything

Procedural fairings

Procedural parts

Realism Overhaul

RCS build aid

Real chute

Real fuels

Real heat

Real plume 

RSS

Remote tech

RP-0

SCANsat

Ven stock revamp

I'm currently running KSP 1.2.2.

Thanks in advance for any advice

 

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