Infernal Robotics Docking Washer Not staying attached

[KerbalKendall]

I'm building a space station with a rotating section and a counterbalance flywheel.  In the VAB it works perfect but anywhere else the washers dont stay connects.  They are literally just stacked up but not connected.  I have tested them in smaller builds and they work perfectly.  I'm attaching a photo and the vehicle file.  Try it in VAB to see what its supposed to do.  I have several mods installed but i tried it with the mods uninstalled and it was the same.  It's frustrating because this build is almost done except it wont function correctly.  

 

I just realized this forum doesent allow attachments :(   Well, any thoughts anyway?

[Gargamel]

20 hours ago, KerbalKendall said:

I just realized this forum doesent allow attachments

Post your image on an image hosting site, like imgur, and then right click the image, select "copy image location", and post the link here, it will embed the pic. 

Use a file hosting service like Dropbox, or KerbalX for the craft file.