i think i know how to fix the explosions problem. just make a smaller vehicle... but you (creator) should make the vehicle spawn farther away from the station.
I tried again with a mk1 pod only, it work but i couldn't find the pod. Then tried with a slightly bigger rocket and it spawned through the walls and blew up again.
Same problem, station explodes, does my ship spawn inside? It's weird because it's only a small vessel and i'm not using other mods. Do I need to do anything else before buying a ship?