I don't know if I've ever posted on this account, but with this bullet point I wanted to make my voice heard. I started playing KSP 1 looong before 1.0 and would come back to the game multiple times over the years. One mod that always got installed was the Joint Reinforcement mod. I played with wobbly rockets all of once and decided that I never wanted to do it again. It wasn't funny for me, it was frustrating.
Respectfully, this feels like a "this is not a bug it's a feature" excuse. I'm with Matt Lowne on this one, I don't see Kerbals as inept space-farers, and I don't find it funny when I'm trying to fly a perfectly reasonable rocket to LKR, only to have it bend over like a slinky. Now, for some people, I'm sure they enjoy the goofiness of wobbly rockets (though I'd argue that they are going to stop playing after a couple of hours if said wobbliness literally keeps them from getting anything substantial to orbit) but in my experience, between the various youtubers I watch, and the people I interact with that also play KSP 1 and 2, wobbly rockets is not a long term attractor to the game, and without a solution to mitigate that that isn't a workaround they're just going to stop playing.