Thanks for the attention.
When the craft is rising and reaches 18000 ft, the chute symbol is white on a gray background and since the trainer staged the chute at 14000 ft I stage it here at 18000 ft.
I stage at this point, it makes the staging noise and after staging the chute it turns pale blue on a gray background.
At this point the box with 0.2 and 1000 in it, says "safe to deploy". And then it crashes. Again.
The chute is on the nose of the craft, there is no cargo bay or fairing.