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Hey guys, me and a friend are trying to get on his server, he can connect but i cant. Every time i try to connect i get the message connecting to: then it turns to Disconnected. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Hey guys, when i am trying to connect to my friends server i keep getting a disconnected message. Also my friend doesnt know what ip he should be using. Would it be the ip you get off websites like ipchicken.com etc or some other one? thanks