@Alamo I think you are missing a step after step 7. Once you get to the intersect, since you are now close to the target your navball should change to target mode. It should also show your relative speed relative to the target. Put your nose on the retograde marker and burn until you get the velocity between you and your target to 0 m/s. Now, since we are close to the station and are going the same speed we should be in basically the same orbit, so you can point your nose straight at the target and thrust toward it. Keep your velocity low (1-2 m/s) and use warp if you want to get there faster. The prograde marker for the target should be near the target marker that you are thrusting toward. You want to make the prograde marker and the target marker to line up with each other, use the RCS translation keys (ijkl) to center the yellow prograde marker on the purple target marker. Once you get near the station kill your speed (by backthrusting with n) then use the normal rotate/translation keys to line up with the port and dock. Keep at it, I was very frustrated at first as well (matching orbits MANUALLY instead of using the above method) and I would always do the same as you, end up with the target passing by me at high velocity. By a) matching speeds (and thus orbits) with the target and using RCS translation to adjust my course when approching the target I was finally able to dock successfully. Once you have done it a few times it will become A LOT easier, so don't give up!