Help with Relationships Thread

[NSEP]

Im planning to make a christmas card for my crush, oh well, more like a drawing with some important information on the back. I will just hand it to her. Or maybe do it Cassini-Hygens style if im just not chill enough to stand in the senpai zone for more than 1 second.

Oh and my number will be on it just in case.

[Piatzin]

18 minutes ago, NSEP said:

Im planning to make a christmas card for my crush, oh well, more like a drawing with some important information on the back. I will just hand it to her. Or maybe do it Cassini-Hygens style if im just not chill enough to stand in the senpai zone for more than 1 second.

Oh and my number will be on it just in case.

Has she ever flirted with you?

Because that would be a pretty obvious and reassuring sign....

Edited December 19, 2017 by Earthlinger

[MiffedStarfish]

9 minutes ago, NSEP said:

Or maybe do it Cassini-Hygens style if im just not chill enough to stand in the senpai zone for more than 1 second.

What? Drop it in from orbit with a parachute, then watch for 20 years to see what happens?

That seems like a solid strategy. 

[Ultimate Steve]

1 minute ago, MiffedStarfish said:

What? Drop it in from orbit with a parachute, then watch for 20 years to see what happens?

That seems like a solid strategy. 

Don't forget trying to find  an old Titan booster lying around somewhere. And don't forget to only maintain contact with the probe for a few hours.

Oh, yeah, and don't forget to crash into Saturn on September 15. That's an important one.

And write a song about it.

[NSEP]

10 minutes ago, Earthlinger said:

Has she ever flirted with you?

No. People of her type don't flirt yet.

5 minutes ago, MiffedStarfish said:

What? Drop it in from orbit with a parachute, then watch for 20 years to see what happens?

That seems like a solid strategy. 

. Not without the heatshield.

Actually, its just walking by her, throwing the gift at her table and walking away, like nothing happend.

4 minutes ago, Ultimate Steve said:

Don't forget trying to find  an old Titan booster lying around somewhere.

I know that there is a missle silo with a Titan rocket inside, soooo.....

[Piatzin]

1 minute ago, NSEP said:

Actually, its just walking by her, throwing the gift at her table and walking away, like nothing happend.

And with explosions in the background. Don't forget those

[Ultimate Steve]

Just now, NSEP said:

I know that there is a missle silo with a Titan rocket inside, soooo.....

Unfortunately, the one in South Dakota is disarmed (IIRC) and Cassini used one of the big Titan IV's.

Question: How exactly would one ask someone out? And any date ideas? I'm stuck in a small town without a driver's license, so...

[Piatzin]

9 hours ago, Ultimate Steve said:

Question: How exactly would one ask someone out? And any date ideas? I'm stuck in a small town without a driver's license, so...

Um. I wouldn't really know.

I literally seem to be immune to puberty - or at least, I'm not one of those guys that goes around developing crushes left and right. I've only ever truly liked one person before, and with her, we pretty much agreed with each other on most everything, so 'dates' were essentially this:

"Oh hey, Guardians of the Galaxy is on. We should watch it."

"Cool. I can do Sunday."

"Kay. i can pick you up."

So asking out people isn't really my thing lol

Edited December 20, 2017 by Earthlinger

[Guest]

7 hours ago, Ultimate Steve said:

Don't forget trying to find  an old Titan booster lying around somewhere. And don't forget to only maintain contact with the probe for a few hours.

Oh, yeah, and don't forget to crash into Saturn on September 15. That's an important one.

And write a song about it.

And you are gonna need moar boosters...

[RoadRunnerAerospace]

Well, at least you guys have the courage to even approach your crushes.

When my crush talks to me (once every blue moon), i get confused (WOAH! SHES TALKING TO ME), and respond with simple one word answers to what theyre asking/saying, weve never had a: a private/not in the middle of class conversation, b: conversation longer than 5 minutes.

Edited December 20, 2017 by RoadRunnerAerospace

[Piatzin]

1 hour ago, RoadRunnerAerospace said:

When my crush talks to me (once every blue moon), i get confused (WOAH! SHES TALKING TO ME), and respond with simple one word answers to what theyre asking/saying, weve never had a: a private/not in the middle of class conversation, b: conversation longer than 5 minutes.

Well at least she knows you exist.....

[qzgy]

23 hours ago, NSEP said:

Actually, its just walking by her, throwing the gift at her table and walking away, like nothing happend.

I have literally no experience in this, but that doesn't seem like the greatest idea. Might be more effective to walk over and give the card normally (hopefully when she is alone or something) while maybe having a small conversation or something. IDK, I'm not an expert

[Piatzin]

2 minutes ago, qzgy said:

I have literally no experience in this, but that doesn't seem like the greatest idea. Might be more effective to walk over and give the card normally (hopefully when she is alone or something) while maybe having a small conversation or something. IDK, I'm not an expert

True. Or buy a bar of chocolate and eat it in a moment when she's near you. Then if she looks over, offer some. Or something. Be aware that many of my suggestions will involve chocolate lol.

My member title kinda gives it away

[Guest]

On 12/19/2017 at 5:21 PM, NSEP said:

No. People of her type don't flirt yet.

The "yet" worries me.

[Guest]

On 12/19/2017 at 5:21 PM, NSEP said:

Actually, its just walking by her, throwing the gift at her table and walking away, like nothing happend.

Also, this has "NOT GOING TO WORK" written all over it.

If you're planning on dropping the card and waiting for her to strike up a conversation through the phone or whatever, I guarantee you it's not going to work. Or if you're planning on talking to her when she's alone, trust me, she won't be.

Try getting a friend to introduce you to her, or if you're in school you can try getting to know her (BY TALKING TO HER), just basically find a way to talk and get to know her, just talk about whatever comes on your mind (I think I don't need to say this but don't talk about science or KSP or whatever, talk about stuff she can relate to).

Eventually you'll find an appropriate moment to ask her out, and then you'll be able to tell her you want to "stay with" her (I don't know how to say it in English).

Edited December 21, 2017 by Guest

[NSEP]

4 hours ago, Aperture Science said:

Also, this has "NOT GOING TO WORK" written all over it.

If you're planning on dropping the card and waiting for her to strike up a conversation through the phone or whatever, I guarantee you it's not going to work. Or if you're planning on talking to her when she's alone, trust me, she won't be.

Try getting a friend to introduce you to her, or if you're in school you can try getting to know her (BY TALKING TO HER), just basically find a way to talk and get to know her, just talk about whatever comes on your mind (I think I don't need to say this but don't talk about science or KSP or whatever, talk about stuff she can relate to).

Eventually you'll find an appropriate moment to ask her out, and then you'll be able to tell her you want to "stay with" her (I don't know how to say it in English).

Thanks, i actually avoid using the walking by technique most at the time. I tried it once, it didn't help, only doing that again when i give up.

Thanks for the tips pal!

5 hours ago, Aperture Science said:

The "yet" worries me.

Don't worry. Its not something worrying. Im not going to explain because that might reveal too much info.

[qzgy]

5 hours ago, Aperture Science said:

you want to "stay with" her (I don't know how to say it in English).

I think (In american anyways) its "date" (as a verb). Or start a relationship.

[Guest]

7 hours ago, qzgy said:

I think (In american anyways) its "date" (as a verb). Or start a relationship.

Yeah, but when it's something more casual (not serious), how's it called

[Piatzin]

1 minute ago, Aperture Science said:

Yeah, but when it's something more casual (not serious), how's it called

A fling?

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, Earthlinger said:

A fling?

Eh, it's probably date like the other guy said

[RoadRunnerAerospace]

Welp, turns out my crush is dating someone 

[Piatzin]

28 minutes ago, RoadRunnerAerospace said:

Welp, turns out my crush is dating someone 

That sucks. Have they been at it for some time, or is it recent?

[RoadRunnerAerospace]

47 minutes ago, Earthlinger said:

That sucks. Have they been at it for some time, or is it recent?

I dont know actually

[NSEP]

Im taking a break now. I hope this makes me a little cooler next year.

[Urses]

On 19.12.2017 at 8:25 PM, Ultimate Steve said:

Question: How exactly would one ask someone out? And any date ideas? I'm stuck in a small town without a driver's license, so...

Without license a riksha maybe?

And as ever who don't ask deserves no answer. Go to her and ask politely for a date, like " i find you realy interesting and it would be a pleasure to meet you for a dinner to give us a chance to learn more about each other"?