Space Station not Working

[epoca]

Oh dear... I've experienced SO many bugs in this game, but this one is by far the most frustrating. I just completed the core of my Space Station, which took me a long time to build since the Space Station Science labs are so damn heavy. And now that it is finished... it doesn't work. I can't undock things. As soon as I click on the undock button, it correctly switches my view to one of the two vessels, but the docking ports stay connected. RCS doesn't work, no matter what. If I time warp, the vessels slide one onto the other and eventually separate, but as soon as I revert to 1x either they re-dock (causing incredible wobbling which eventually leads to stuff exploding) or they randomly explode. Here are a couple of pictures. I really hope someone has a solution, it's really frustrating. Thank you SO much if you do!!!!

My mods: Space Station Science, Trajectories, StageRecovery, KerbalJointReinforcement, KerbQuake

Undocking the two vessels:

RCS doesn't do what it should:

Time warping apparently fixes the bug:

Reverting to real time makes things either redock and wobble or explode:

The orbit goes mad:

[Padishar]

Check out the Kerbal Joint Reinforcement thread. This sounds very like the problem they've been discussing in there. There is a fixed version available for testing from the author's GitHub repository...