I'm a fairly new player but I've more or less got the hang of the game by now. That said, it was pretty tough getting anywhere outside of Kerbin's SOI and returning in one piece for a while. If you think 'X' is too easy, there are a lot of mods (that I'm not ready for) that would make the game a lot harder--and more realistic. As other posters have mentioned, FAR, Deadly Re-Entry, etc. As far as the science tree goes, career mode probably won't stay like this forever, but you can get a ton of science just by doing missions on and in orbit around Kerbin. With some good contracts and a few missions to Minmus/Mun you can finish it easily--but this isn't the most exciting way to play the game. Part of the fun is challenging yourself, like trying to put a big station in orbit without orange tanks, doing interplanetary transfer without ion engines (hard for me at least).