Sorry, didn't realize.
I don't have access to the console version of KSP, but I just tested this on PC and it works in stock. Hopefully it will also work on console. Turn off the setting that allows you to revert flights. Then if a launch goes sideways switch to the Tracking Station. Say yes to the warning about abandoning the flight. Then you can terminate any debris from there. If you have Kerbals aboard you can switch back to them and land that section. If it is an unmanned rocket you could just terminate everything.
If you have the revert flight setting on, then switching to the Tracking Station will auto-revert to launch.