This solution might be whimsical, but theoreotically possible: Your chute MUST be larger, or the same size of your command module.
Another possible solution: if you're just going to use the chute with other stuff like engines etc., decouple them. It's too heavy for the chute to bring.
But if you don't want to decouple, try enabling your engine until it slows you down. Ensure you're in a landing direction, not right or left, as this will expand or retract the orbit.
Last resort: Bring as many radial chutes as you can. They might help you in slowing down.