Here are the keys that made docking easy for me: 1. Build ships that are easy to dock--put the docking port on the end, not on the side. 2. Rendezvous--if you end up 50m away at .1m/s you're 90% docked. 3. Eliminate drift--point the dockee port south, point the docking port north to keep the ports from rotating while orbiting. 4. Work one axis at a time--get going toward the port, then align them vertically, then align them horizontaly. 5. GO SLOW--don't exceed .3 m/s. 6. Practice--yes, you will screw up, badly. Quicksave is your friend. I don't recommend MechJeb as it uses an insane amount of monopropellant. I manually docked my Mun lander to an orbiter six times and only used 17 units of mono. Don't give up hope! Docking is one of the most rewarding things in the game and will always give you a feeling of accomplishment when you do it. Good luck and let us know how it goes!